Make your Halloween
celebration even more fun by incorporating history and family bonding into this
exciting fall holiday.
For kids, Halloween is a time to dress up and get free candy,
but the holiday actually has a rich history. October is the perfect time to
teach your kids about the origins of Halloween and help them understand some of
the facts behind the traditions. It's also a great way to sneak in a little
history that kids can get excited about.
Lesley Pratt Bannatyne, Halloween expert and author of "Halloween Nation: Behind the Scenes of America's Fright Night," and Deborah Heiligman, author of "Celebrate Halloween With Pumpkins, Costumes, and Candy," share tips on how to teach your kids that the holiday is about more than just
princesses, pirates and candy.
1. Brush up on Facts Before you teach
kids about Halloween, you need to know some information yourself. Read about
how Halloween began as a Celtic holiday (called Samhain) where ghosts would
come back to earth (spooky!) and how it evolved into All Hallows' Eve.
2. Keep it Age Appropriate Halloween may seem
like a kid-friendly holiday, but Heiligman advises keeping it light for smaller
children who could get scared.
"The best age is when kids start asking questions, which will differ from child to child. You can gear your answers to the age your child is. Older children, around 8 or 9, probably will be ready to hear all about the Celts. But all children can learn about the harvest holiday aspects of Halloween."
"The best age is when kids start asking questions, which will differ from child to child. You can gear your answers to the age your child is. Older children, around 8 or 9, probably will be ready to hear all about the Celts. But all children can learn about the harvest holiday aspects of Halloween."
Bannatyne also recommends editing some of the spookier aspects for younger kids. "To make Halloween history un-scary, and yet still tell the true story, parents can talk about Halloween as the holiday where people were allowed to dress up as someone or something they imagined."
3. Make it a Family Affair Many of the harvest traditions, such as pumpkin patches and hay rides, are a fun way to incorporate family bonding. Take your kids to a fall festival or a pumpkin patch and spend the day with them. They can have fun getting their faces painted and picking a pumpkin. Then take the party home and make jack-o'-lanterns.
4. Be Personal A great way to discuss
Halloween history is through old photos and stories. Dust off the old photo
album and talk about traditions from generations ago. What were some of your
family's traditions when you were growing up?
"Over time, we've retooled [Halloween] to be more
child-centered, about candy and costumes and community," Bannatyne shares.
"Little children today are not aware that their grandfathers and
great-grandfathers once soaped windows and egged cars."
While you probably don't want to encourage pranks and vandalism,
it's always fun for kids to see old pictures of their parents and grandparents
as young kids and it provides a context for the lesson.
5. Get Cooking If you have a child who loves
to help in the kitchen, this can be a great time to talk about Halloween
history while prepping treats.
"Making food together is a fun activity," Heiligman
states. "Make pumpkin bread or roast pumpkin seeds. Talking while cooking
is always a great thing."
If you're making pumpkin cookies, talk about this history of the
jack-o-lantern, which Bannatyne says: "was once used as a prank!تChildren
used to carve them, then jump out from behind a wall and try and scare their
neighbors and friends in the dark of late October.
6. Encourage Creativity Halloween is a
great holiday for kids with huge imaginations. Everything from making
decorations to choosing costumes allows their minds to roam free.
"Halloween is about trying to imagine what's out there in
the dark and using your creativity to take control of it for this one
night," Bannatyne says.
This is a great chance for you to help kids who may be scared
realize that monsters are works of fiction. Heiligman advises always reminding
your kids that the spooky things -- such as scary lawn decorations -- are
imaginary.
7. Celebrate Your Own Harvest Use your
backyard or community garden to talk about how Halloween used to mark the end
of the harvest season -- and what that meant for people. Help your kids pick
any leftover autumn vegetables and make a hearty harvest feast together. (The
veggies are also a great complement to the overdose of Halloween candy your
kids are probably consuming!)
8. Start a Fire During Samhain,
Druids built bonfires to celebrate the holiday and burn crops as sacrifices.
Wind down after trick-or-treating by using your backyard fire pit and telling
age-appropriate ghost stories.
Alaina Brandenburger is a Contributor
for Care.com,
the largest online care destination in the world.
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